12 September 2011

7 signs your child loves you‏

1. Your newborn stares into your eyes — he's actually working hard to memorise your face. He doesn't understand anything else about the world, but he knows you're important.

2. Your baby thinks about you even when you're not around. Between eight and 12 months old, he'll start to scrunch his face and look around when you leave the room — and he'll smile when you return.

3. Your toddler throws wicked tantrums. Nope, those screaming fits don't mean he's stopped loving you. He couldn't show he was so hurt and angry if he didn't trust you so deeply.

4. Your toddler runs to you for comfort when he falls down or feels sad. Children this age may not truly understand the meaning of "I love you," but their actions speak louder than words.

5. Your preschooler gives you a flower picked from the garden, a finger-painted heart, a sparkly stone or another gift.

6. Your preschooler wants your approval. He'll start to be more cooperative around the house and he'll look for chances to impress. "Look at me!" will become a catchphrase.

7. Your school-age child trusts you with secrets, such as his first crush or his most embarrassing moment. You're his confidante, even if he shies away from your hugs in public.

The above will act as a reminder to me, not to feel annoyed or angry when my child kept pestering me to look at her in the midst when i'm busy doing something. not to scold her when she asked for acknowledgment from us when she did something good.

i felt so bad the minute i read this, dammit!
gosh, i'm a bad mom :(
sob sob sob sob... so emo now!

6 comments:

Mommy to Chumsy said...

must be the hormones lah. don't be so emo. we are only human. of course we get angry at our kids sometimes but that doesn't mean we don't love them :)

Alice Law said...

Ohhh, my kids do love me, lol! Thanks for sharing... oh dear, don't be sad... yeah, it's the emotion thingy, pat pat * hug!

prince n princess mum said...

Everyone got emotional time.. Completely normal ma...

Mummy to QiQi said...

no worry, as we are all sama-sama BAD, hahaha!!!

mNhL said...

it is ok to be angry... sometimes.

Merryn said...

aww.... u r not a bad mom.. it's just the hormones playing tricks on u...

u only have 9 months to blame it on da hormones yeah.. after that, no excuse.. YOU ARE A BAD MOM! muahahahhaha.. bluek :P