21 February 2011

V day is over...

i just realised i did not blog about Valentine's day, whooooaaaa, why arr... cus nothing fancy happen that day, that's why! jeeeeeez! hahaha... i sounded so pissed kan, cus as usual no flowers, no card, no chocolatey, no candy, no diamond rings, no greetings even... cus i married a cina ahpek! sheeeeeeesssh! and also cus lil missy caught the fever bug on Valentine's day, so we all end up resting at home, but she is all well now ;)

u ask me if i regret marrying this cina ahpek? i gotta admit, there are times when i do think twice about our marriage when we have our arguments, but then again no marriage is perfect, we all have our ups & downs, both party gotta work for the happiness and longevity of it, don't you think so? u don't get prince charming trotting down the park with a shiny armour on a black beauty what! that only happens in fairy tales! but then again, we do hear or read about real life fairy tales happening in our modern society sometimes, but still, those love birds gotta work it, for a happy ending ever after....

i was a bit upset though, and envied my office mates who received huge bouquet of flowers sent over to office by their beloved declaring their utmost love and attention to their wife / girlfriend. my boss told me, why sent to office? why not give their wife or gf face to face? i said errr... to make the girlfriend envied by others mah, for them to feel proud mah or there is no one at home to receive the flowers lah, the wife / girlfriend is at work! hehe... my boss just shook his head, he is the man who doesn't believe in spending ridiculous amount of money just on Valentine's day, he said if he wants to send his wife flowers, he could do it any other day wor...
as for me, im still upset. hahahahaha... so naive isn't it, so kiddo-like, grow up man! eeessssh! i miss the feelings of receiving flowers u know. the goosebumps all over your skin, the linger of cold sweat, the trembling hands, the crazy wide smile all over the face, the happy thots, the utterly crazy happy feeling... gosh, those where the days! when i was still single and available (ehem!) during my hotel working years, i used to get flowers sent to me, once by an anonymous guy, till today, i don't know how he even look like, we only spoke on the phone. then there was once i received 3 bouquet of flowers at the same day, which was on my birthday! those were the days-lah! gosh, lemme brag for awhile ok, then u can smack my head after that! hahahaha...

oh well, now i can only think back & smile silly to myself that once i was so appreciated with flowers. don't get me wrong, i do get appreciated now, by my hubby dearest, not in the flowery way though. throughout our courtship days, he sent me flowers only 3 times, the last was for a marriage proposal, 99 stalks of roses with 4 big sunflowers! gosh! now? he appreciate me more in the "domestic" way. hahahahaha... he is by far, the only guy i know, who can tolerate my nonsense, my stubborn cow-like mind, my super laser mouth, my whatever nonsense-lah!

i remembered when i was preggers with lil missy, he was the one who clean the house, sweep & mop the floor everyday, cus he knows im a clean freak. im sure many other hubbies do that as well, hehe! and he does everything that i asked of him to do, is that love ar? or is that just a gesture to stop the nagging wife? hahahahahaha... gotta give him credit-lah... that is love isn't it, if he doesn't love me, he would not bothered to do it kan? oh well, dunno what's wrong with me to come up with this post, probably im currently high on my flu meds, a bit blurry, highly, and extremely sleepy! monday blues... im singing the blues... tired la, from our trip yesterday to the highland which will be entirely on another post! gotta go sleep and hug my hubs now, hehe!

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15 comments:

Alice Law said...

LOL, you are blessed with a considerate and helpful hubby!^-^

p/s: Mine also not romantic one, didn't even got to celebrate anniversary!;p

Mummy Moon said...

You get so many bouquets of flowers in one day , shiok nya.

I think your hub know what to do next yr lah :)

Bryan and Brandon's Mama said...

It's nice to receive flowers but looking at my friends, 2 of my friends who received flowers last year during V-day ended up being divorced this year!!! Yah this is really unusual lah but what I'm trying to say is that love goes beyond flowers and gifts. You both share a daughter together - now THAT is an evidence of the love you have for each other. Don't ever forget that :)
P/S: I married a cina-pek too!!!

ChloeRuoyi said...

I find nothing wrong with unromantic cina ahpeks cos I married one too hehe.

Waaaah! 99 stalks of roses with 4 big sunflowers! Like that u still want to complain? Tsk tsk tsk... Kel is a very loving and caring hubby and a superb daddy too. Don't take him for granted ya! :)

mNhL said...

Wei....blurry and can still come out with this SUPER NICE post! I agreed with you. A strong marriage got to depends on both to work on it. No fairy tales in this world.

Hope you are ok now....still whispering? hehe.... Terrible feeling ya. Dunnon those viruses came from where! Get well soon...

Btw.....mine is also a china ahpek. No flowers even he proposed to me!!!!

mom2ashley said...

same here la...i also married a cinapek. but it;s the little things he does for you everyday that counts.

Merryn said...

ELO!!!!!!!! He declared his love on FB ok? My hubs dont even HAVE FB! He sent u flowers 3 times.. mine.. NONE!

and look at the way he jaga Krys in Genting.. mana mo cari that kinda cina pek anymore? lol..

only HE can tolerate having an OCD wife! Muahahahahahha.. :P

Wonderful Life said...

same here la... didn't get anything! no V-day celebration every year! sigh.

jazzmint said...

nvm, he shall read this blog and send u flowers secretly..don't get flowers on V day lah, over over priced!!

cleffairy said...

Woman, I oso married cinapek la... only celebrate CNY... tarak kick his donkey ass to celebrate anniversary and my bday, he oso wun do wan la. CIS!!!

LittleLamb said...

fai fai chui chui get pregnant. its time la....

MayChing said...

i'm in the same boat too! no romance, no nothing, sigh!

edisaster said...

Oi...dun 38 la. from pat toh until kahwin until beranak, he can still tahan your OCD, the shoutings and the mood swings. if he dun love you, something must be very wrong with his otak...muahahahahahahahaha

besides, v-day flowers is way over-priced. it has become a money-making business. helping you to clean the house is so much better than flowers la (that is if you allow him to touch your previous mop)....hehehehehehhehe

xx

Zara's Mama said...

You married cheenar pek, I married kayu..
He even said he'll do something for me on Vday if I'll blog +ve thing about him. Sei mei?

Jacss said...

having fun reading all the comments, esp LOL at agnes's, hahaha
eh, cinapek is everywhere here in Malai lah...perhaps it's just not a thing to celebrate here!!
forget abt those fairy dreams, OK!!
*piak...wake-up* LOL